The Rutschke Family

The Rutschke Family

Thursday, September 19, 2013

Happy Birthday Aben!

This is a little late, but HAPPY BIRTHDAY to my sweet Aben!

I can't believe you are already two years old! These two years have flown by. I remember when you were this little....
And now you're SO big!
Whenever people meet you, they always say that you are absolutely adorable and beyond cute. They tell me how your personality shines! And they couldn't be more right! You have always had your own personality that shows in everything you do. You love talking to anyone around. You tell them about your toys and your baby brother Noah. You always say hello and thank you. You might get a little shy sometimes, but generally, you will talk to just about anyone. Especially if they have a book to read with you.

You're so smart and can say just about anything these days. You love singing songs and know most of the words to your favorite songs- Twinkle, Twinkle; ABC; I am a Child of God; I Love to see the Temple. Your smile is so big and bright-it helps to have those beautiful big lips from your daddy! You already recognize the spirit and talk about the Temple everyday. I can tell these traits can be your strengths when you get older because they are your strengths now.

You're birthday was a blast with all the cousins. Joe-Joe wanted to help you open all your presents as fast as possible. But you took your time...you took a nice long break after opening your present from Aunt Ashley and Uncle Jerry's family. They gave you a notebook and crayons and you just had to stop to color for a couple minutes. :) I had so much fun making everything Toy Story...your favorite movie. You loved the cupcakes and juice. But mostly, you loved playing with your cousins. They are your favorite friends! Happy birthday my sweet boy! I love you more then anything and I love you more everyday! I am one lucky mama!








HAPPY 2nd BIRTHDAY!



Tuesday, September 17, 2013

My sweet Aben!

So I feel like I've been a bad mom since I haven't been updating about Aben. Aben has grown and changed so much. So here are some of the highlights and some of my favorite things he does:
  • Aben's first full sentence he said all on his own was "Dadda, I share with Momma!". He was sharing his trail mix with me and was so proud of it. :) This happened the first week of June. Since then he doesn't really say anything that isn't in a full sentence. "Momma, I want a cookie." "Momma, I'm hungry.", "Dadda come home soon?"....and more, and more, and more!
  • He loves marching with his dad when dad gets home from medical school.
  • When he's walking with a purpose he swings his left arm high and hard :) (and only the left...never the right)
  • Loves taking pictures with my phone camera...especially when the sound is on. What I love most is when he tell us to say "Cheeseburger!" when taking pictures. He got that from Grandma Rutschke. Even cuter then saying cheeseburger is how he says it. It is in the cutest voice and pitch and sounds more like "cheese-burders!"
  • Loves singing "Twinkle, Twinkle, Little Star", "I am a Child of God", "ABC's", "Head-Shoulder-Knees-and Toes", "I love to see the Temple", and "Clean up". He actually knows the words pretty well in all of these songs, especially the first two.
  • Is such a good helper and loves to help clean up. He always sings the clean up song too!
  • Is starting to better understand his stomach and when it is hungry or full. The other day, we were saying we were "hungry as a hippo". A few days later he came up to me around lunch time and said, "Momma, Aben a hippo! I'm so hungry!". (He refers to himself as "Aben", and usually points to himself when he says it). It made my day...what a smart boy!
  • Always says, "Be right back, okay (he pronounces it 'tay')!" And while he says this he points with is pointer finger to add more emphasis. I love this! 
  • Is such a good eater. He absolutely loves mac and cheese, cheese stuffed noodles, lasagna, tacos/burritos, fruit snacks, and of course cookies! But he also loves bell peppers, cucumbers, salad/lettuce, and a lot of other veggies.  He has always loved food!
  • Aben's a lot like me when it comes to his drinks. :) He loves his drinks, and he always has to have one or he will be super grumpy if he gets thirsty. Anything that is juice or pop is "apple juice" and he loves his apple juice! But more than anything he loves milk....regular milk, chocolate milk, or strawberry. Every morning he still has to have a warm cup of milk with his breakfast.
  • Is so sweet and still loves to cuddle
  • Finally, Aben is doing so good in his big boy bed. He occasionally tries to climb in our bed in the middle of the night, but that only happens about once or twice a week now. Not 3 times a night! I'm so glad I stuck with it! 
  • Even though he is so cute, sweet, and handsome, he still is a two year old and has a hard time when he doesn't get his way. He hates time-out and usually cries or screams the whole time he's in time-out and then refuses to leave time-out, which makes no sense, but he's learning and just trying to find ways to express his emotions. 
  • With going to timeout and being told what is a "no no", he has started to imitate us. He says, "One, Two, One, room now!" (I count to three, giving him three chances to listen and if he is still not listening, he has to go to time out). He has started putting his toys in time out too. He will come tell us, "Mommy, Daddy, cup is naughty." Then he'll come back and say "Cup happy now" and go and get him out of time-out. Really funny, but it does show us that he really does listen and pick up on how we talk to him. I guess we have to start being careful of what we say! ;)
Two is a hard age, but so fun at the same time with how much he is growing. He is loving Missouri and has transitioned with all the changes-new baby, move, new bed, etc- really well. He loves his next door neighbor friend Emma who is his age and asks to play with her every day. He is loving how many kids and friends he has in our neighborhood and is loving being able to play more outside. He does miss his daddy so much though. He asks all day long "Daddy home soon?". He turns into a hyper-active crazy child the minute dad gets home :)! Even with the tantrums-screaming, hitting, crying- I am loving my time with my Aben. I am one lucky momma! 

 Aben came up to me with this bag packed full of toys and said "Momma, I go to Idaho!". He has missed his grandparents so much!
 Aben loves his Paddington bear. He carried this around all day!

 But even more, he loved sharing it with his baby brother. :)

 Always asks to eat his snacks outside. He is just too cute!

 Aben has a new found love for shoes. He especially loves to wear my high heels. Daddy isn't too fond of Aben's love for heels ;)
 Nothing sweeter then seeing Sean and Aben walk hand-in-hand

 My handsome boy at Sean's White Coat Ceremony

Aben enjoying Noah's chair.


Thursday, September 12, 2013

Adam-Ondi-Ahman and more!

While it has been hard adjusting to living in Missouri, it has been great to be so close to so many church history sites. Before Sean started school we had the opportunity to visit some of the sites as a family. The first one we saw was Liberty Jail. It was a good reminder of what the earlier saints and leaders went through to restore the gospel. How grateful I am for the many sacrifices they went through for the church.


We then were able to go to the Community of Christ temple in Independence. The temple there was so different then I expected. There really is no comparison to and LDS Temple and the temple of the Community of Christ Church. I was surprised at how many repairs were needed and worn down the furnishings/flooring/ceiling/etc. were. I guess when I hear the phrase "Temple" I automatically imagine a building so clean and completely taken care of out of respect for the Lord, I was shocked at how much work needed to be done on it. The museum there was pretty amazing though. There are so many belongings of Joseph, Emma, and the early church members that it is remarkable. I loved seeing those, but otherwise I wasn't too impressed with the rest of the temple.


My favorite so far though was when we got to go to Adam-Ondi-Ahman. There aren't any special buildings there..it really is just land, but it is beautiful and the spirit there is so sweet and strong. You really can sense how you are on sacred ground, that something great happened there and will happen there. The best thing about it was the experience with Aben though. Earlier in the week, Grandma and Grandpa Rutschke took Aben for a drive and showed him the Kansas City Temple so he learned what Temples are. We got out of the car and started looking around. Aben then looked at me, pointed out to the open land and said, "Look mama, Temple!". I don't know what he saw, but I know he was feeling the same spirit I felt there. I know children recognize the sweet spirit of the Lord, probably better then we do. I am so grateful to be a mother and to be surrounded by children. I love the innocence of children and the constant reminder to be more like them. I love my boys!